March 21, 2016

The fastest way to a female squirting orgasm

female squirting orgasm

The sex world is full of myths and stories and one of the biggest myths out there is the female squirting orgasm.  Stronger still, any different orgasm has been excluded; a woman can’t ejaculate and therefore the female squirting orgasm is complete nonsense.

That was the going way of thinking until the sixties of last century. Now a lot more research has been done and we know that many women have had experience with this form of squirting orgasm.

An estimated 90% of women have never had a squirting orgasm, while the other 10% have experienced it.

Today we’ll have a closer look at the female squirting orgasm, what it is exactly and if it’s something we’d advise or if it’s better avoided. We end up with 7 tips to provoke a squirting orgasm. Read on to find out everything about this exciting subject!

How can you make a woman squirt and is it advisable?

It is often claimed that a squirting orgasm is nothing else than urine coming out of the woman’s body. Nothing is less true. Judging by the colour and the odour (if it smells at all), you can see it’s completely different than urine. Although it is very unclear where the ejaculated fluid comes from, most sources point in the direction of a gland at the vaginal opening. It may still be unclear where it comes from, but the fact that it isn’t urine is certain.

Whether it is advisable to provoke a squirting orgasm is easy to find out.

the female squirting orgasm is not a mythYou can find many testimonials on the internet and in books of women who have experienced squirting orgasms. A lot of men dominate the reactions, because they managed to make their partner squirt, but also because it is probably one of the most intense moments they have ever had during sex.

There is mostly a really good feeling in bed after a squirting orgasm because it is so much more intense than any other orgasm caused by penetration or clitoral stimulation. She is very satisfied and her body will have created a lot of endorphins which make her feel happy and good.

All these are good reasons to give it a go, but how do you make a woman squirt? We have researched the 7 best tips and we left the improbable and magical tricks behind.

If you follow the next 7 tips the chance exists that you will make a woman squirt.

7 tips for a female squirting orgasm

Tip 1: Take your time

One of the most important things to remember about sex is that women live it differently than men. Where men mostly aim everything they do to the fuck, for women it is more an extended period of intimacy. So take your time, make sure you partner feels at ease and don’t rush things. If you rush, she will not be relaxed enough to let herself go.

Tip 2: Find the G-spot

To provoke a good squirting orgasm you need to find the G-spot and preferably the a-spot as well. The location is different in every woman, but we can find the G-spot at around half a middle finger into the vagina at the top side. The a-spot is located about twice as far into the vagina in the navel direction, so also at the top (when a woman is lying on her back).

Once you found these two spots you stand a much bigger chance of provoking a squirting orgasm.

Tip 3: try out several techniques

There are different techniques and one will work better for your partner than the other, but you need to keep varying. If you find a method that really seems to work, don’t stop it then; keep using this technique.

A few techniques that contribute to provoking a squirting orgasm:

  • Making circular movements around the G-spot.
  • Stimulating the A-spot with your middle finger
  • Penetration, mostly from the back so your penis can reach the G-spot and/or the A-spot.
  • Stroking the G-spot with one or more fingers

Knowing different techniques gives you more options to try and this will improve your chance to succeed. Try and find out what your partner likes by the signals she sends. It would not be advisable to start analysing your actions for a few minutes during sex.

Tip 4: Dirty talking may help

Dirty talk can help to get a woman at the point where she lets herself go completely to reach this intense orgasm, … or you may get a slap in the face…

If your partner likes dirty talk, it is definitely the way to go. If she doesn’t like it, it may be better to say sweet things to her to make her feel at ease and to help her relax during sex. If you don’t know whether she likes dirty talk or not, there is only one way to find out: try it out during sex and watch her reaction. You can also ask her at other times, but many women don’t have any idea about how they would react during sex.

Tip 5: Sex is more of a mental than a physical act

This is true for most women, so don’t top reading once you see this! It can be difficult for a woman to cum or even to enjoy sex if she is not in the right mind for it, especially when there is performance pressure involved.

If you’ve been moaning for weeks about her not being able to squirt after all you’ve done, you are on the wrong path. Make sure there’s no pressure, have a glass of wine together and give her a massage. This can contribute to a good emotional condition to reach an amazing squirting orgasm.

Tip: Another way to add some fun and increase sexual tension is doing it outdoors.

Tip 6: Teasing can help in many cases

teasing helps creating a female squirting orgasmTension is a big player in a woman’s orgasm and sex, but a certain freedom is important as well. It is easy to create both these feelings. By teasing a woman you can get her much further and you can provoke a very intense orgasm, maybe even a squirting orgasm. This teasing can be very simple: you’ll notice during stimulation when your partner is close to the climax. At that time you stimulate less intensely to make the climax ebb away. Once she is more relaxed you build up again; you can repeat this 3 or 4 times to keep it exciting and then you go full speed to help her reach a fantastic orgasm. If you really want to surprise her you do this three or four times in a row during sex and the fifth time you go straight for the finish.

This will surprise her and the constant build-up of tension will get her to orgasm with more conviction. It’s all about the mind-set!

Tip 7: Double stimulation means double pleasure

You can make a woman’s orgasm more intense than ever by double stimulation. The easiest way to go about this is probably vaginal fingering, stimulation of the G-spot, A-spot or both, while you stimulate the clitoris with your thumb. Another option is for more experienced lovers. You can fuck her from the back, making the penis reach the G-spot. The best way to do this is by making her lie on her stomach, maybe with a cushion or a blanket under her pelvis. You take her from the back and you stimulate her clitoris with your fingers (or she does it herself). This multiple stimulation will increase her chances of a very intense orgasm, possibly a squirting orgasm!

The female squirting orgasm: not a myth.

How to make a woman ejaculate? The female squirting orgasm is definitely not a myth and with this information and tricks it should become easier to make a woman ejaculate. It will improve the fun in bed and there is a real chance that she’ll get the most amazing orgasm ever. Take you time and try to find out what works best for you.

 

Mark Meyers

Mark is founder and sexcoach at Sexual Improvements. "Anyone can have an awesome sexlife with the right information!"

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