May 3, 2017

The 10 Best Places for Having Sex Outside to Get Your Adrenaline Going, Feel the Danger of Getting Caught, and Take Control

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Like most guys out there the thought of having sex outside has probably crossed your mind once or twice… or a lot.

Maybe you’ve thought about the hint of danger, how much it would turn a girl on, or maybe it’s just something you want to cross off your bucket list.

Either way, having sex outside is one of the best ways to increase the sexual tension between you and your lady.

Let’s be honest: You can spice up the bedroom with costumes, light BDSM, and all that… but sometimes, it gets a bit of the “same old, same old”.

You find yourself searching for ways to heat things up in the bedroom, but maybe the solution exists just outside your door.

The excitement of having sex with your girl outdoors is an adrenaline rush all of its own. For most people, there’s going to be a slight hesitation or worry about being exposed or caught.

That’s part of what makes it so good.

Once the moment of passion gets going, your thoughts are strictly on each other and the tension of that very moment. Constantly looking around, slightly worried, but so into the danger.

I used to think that girls really weren’t into this type of stuff, that only pornstars did it. Things like being called sluts, having their asses slapped, having sex in dangerous places, and being tied up… But the more I slowly pushed myself to do these things, the more I found women REALLY enjoyed it. I just had to slowly get into it, communicate, and find the right women.

In this article, you’ll learn how having outdoor sex can heighten the sexual tension in your relationship, some of the best places to have outdoor sex, and the amazing benefits of experimenting and trying new things while enjoying this new journey in your sex life.

Having Sex Outside Ramps Up The Sexual Tension

To get a bit scientific, the definition of sexual tension is the social intensity that takes place when two people interact and one or both parties experience sexual desire, but sex itself may or may not actually take place.

That’s a mouthful… no pun intended.

Having sex outside can make it seem more dangerous, up the sexual tension, and make both you and your woman feel more fulfilled.

But you don’t have to go crazy (think swinging from vines like Tarzan and Jane) especially if this is going to be your first rodeo. The fact that you’re about to have sex outdoors is enough to heighten the sexual tension and lead to a mind-blowing adrenaline rush that keeps you both wanting more of each other.

If you or your partner feel a bit shy to get going, you might want to try setting the mood in a secluded but appealing area.

To get a girl really open to sex outdoors, ask her some open-ended questions that lead her down that road:

“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?”

“Where’s the coolest place you’ve ever had sex?”

“Are you adventurous?”

Share ideas on some of the best places to have sex outside and eventually, the more you talk about it, the more excited and anxious you both become to make it happen.

She’ll want it. You’ll want it.

Outdoor sex is one of the best methods to explore and to take charge. It’s during these times that you realize that you don’t always have to wait for the perfect moment or place. As a man, you have to create that moment and take advantage of it, wherever you may be, even if it’s outside.

How to Choose the Best Places for Having Sex Outside

Now that you’re ready to enjoy sex in some of the most amazing places where do you start? How do you choose the places that are best for you and your girl?

It’s a great idea to have a conversation with her about where you could do it. Sure, it’s awesome to do it in the moment and sometimes “planning” can take the fun out of it, but you should learn what she is and isn’t comfortable with. She’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness and return it in other ways.

You should keep a few things in mind though:

  • If you’re both feeling a bit nervous, it’s a good idea to start simple by finding an area that you’re both familiar with and know that there’s little to no chance of you being caught. You’re still doing it outside so there’s still the danger aspect, but if you’re so focused on being worried, you might actually have a hard time getting it up.
  • Always weigh the risks and dangers that come along with the location you’re thinking of. For example, don’t choose a place that has a lot of traffic or is often patrolled by cops and property authorities.
  • Find spaces that have a natural romantic setting to enhance the moment. The smell and sounds of nature can elevate the mood and add to the sexual arousal during the experience of outdoor sex.

Alright, so now we can get specific:

10 Best Suggestions for Places to Have Outdoor Sex

Ready to explore a few of the best places for having sex outside? Here are 10 of the best suggested locations:

1. Swimming Pool

This works great in a private pool but is completely possible in a public pool as well. If it’s a public pool you might want to only stick to doing it at night, though.

Here are a few tips to make it better:

  • Enter the pool when no one else is there.
  • Try positions that appear playful to avoid causing suspicion from others.
  • Use fountains or flotation devices as cover-ups.

You gotta be a bit sneaky, but you can do it ;).

2. Public Park

A public park provides lots of props like benches, bushes and fountains to help you in the cover-up while you have sex. This can be extremely fun and the hints of natural elements help to set the mood for romance (if you’re into that sort of thing).

If you really want to sweep your lady off her feet you could start with a picnic under the stars, and then move it all the way to end as a steamy night of outdoor passion.

Hot.

Walk a nature trail that the park has and stray off the suggested course, and you might find a quiet little area just for two and what happens next, well, is strictly up to you. 😉

HEADS UP: Only try this at night time. During the day you’re way too likely to be caught by kids, park authorities, or other people.

3. The Beach

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Sex on the beach isn’t just a nice drink, but also an exciting and fun encounter that can be a bit messy, but definitely enhances the mood for many.

Just watch out for the sand getting everywhere!

Take a cover-up or blanket, choose a secluded area or one that has very little traffic, or perhaps end your night stroll on the beach with a little one-on-one passion.

4. Rooftop Experience

No, I’m not about to suggest you climb to the rooftop of your house. But, city living has many advantages and one of the best is the magnificent rooftop views offered by some of the residential buildings.

Not only are the views great, but so is the setting for sex when the moment is right.

This is one of the best locations because you can let go, scream and do whatever you want to your girl.

Make sure to find residential buildings that don’t have security in order to avoid embarrassing interruptions.

If necessary, prop the doorway open to avoid the possibility of getting stuck on the rooftop.

Take a blanket for comfort and a cell phone for music to set the tone. These both will also come in handy if you get stuck and have to spend longer than expected up there. But that also means you have more time to enjoy the moment.

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5. The Woods

If you and your lady like hiking, camping or nature in any way, you’ll both be open to the idea of seizing the moment with a little passion and great sex.

Take a hike or go camping and once you hit your favorite spot, let the foreplay begin.

To enhance the feel or up the intensity of the moment, lean against a tree (no spikes or branches everywhere) when possible. Push her up against it, dirty talk in her ear about how she’s so naughty, and then start slowly undressing her.

6. At a Sex Party or Swingers Meet

This might be outside of some people’s comfort zones, but a sex party might be a really fun way to have sex outside.

Many clubs have pools, saunas, and more and if you and your lady are open to it, you can invite more people in to join in on the fun.

Have a talk with each other FIRST if you’re going to do this though: Don’t just expect that she’ll be cool with it. You might have people directly watching you, trying to join in, or masterbating.

If you can’t handle that, skip this one.

7. On a Balcony

This is a steamy hot location because it’s a turn-on and it also gives a bit of an adrenaline rush with an awesome view.

It’s also usually pretty easy to find.

8. On the Hood of the Car

It’s pretty common to have sex inside the car, but have you tried on the hood of the car?

Bring your girl up to a lookout, bend her over your ride, pull her panties down, and get to work.

This is an awesome location, especially when the hood is still a little warm.

9. On a Boat

This works for those that won’t get seasick and aren’t afraid of the water. Otherwise, it might ruin the mood.

Take a boat out to a semi-secluded area and do it right on the deck, open to the sky.

…Just make sure your boat is safely anchored so it doesn’t start driving off on you while you’re “busy”.

10. Private Lake

Lakes are usually a great idea for outdoor sex when couples want to try it but are a bit worried about being caught.

A private lake is usually less crowded and gives you lots of intimate areas that let you have fun.

The Importance of Experimentation to Keep Your Sex Life Alive

Gentlemen: A healthy relationship is built on experiencing the possibilities of what trying something new can do for it. If you don’t keep things new and fresh, the fire will die. Simple as that.

It all comes down to experimentation.

The desire to open up with each other and experiment with a variety of sexual positions, locations and thrills can stimulate any relationship, both physically and emotionally.

Don’t be afraid to tell her that you’d like to try something new. It shows her that you’re interested in spicing things up and you want to do so in an adventure with HER.

Don’t be afraid to take the lead and take control. You’re the man and you need to be leading the entire relationship.

And it doesn’t just apply to having sex outdoors: Let her know if you want to try role play, toys, dirty talk… whatever! Sex is like the playground for adults where you’re supposed to have fun. But if you don’t tell her what you want, she won’t know how to give it to you.

Final Words of Advice

The decision to explore the outdoors while you’re having sex could be one of the best decisions you’ve ever made regarding your sex life.

The most important thing is to remember to enjoy yourself and be in the moment. Everyone wants to have a little romance in their life but there’s nothing wrong with adding a little risk to those romantic moments.

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On that note…

YOLO: You Only Live Once

It’s over said, but it’s true. If you’re only on this Earth once, you might as well try everything you can.

Don’t hold back.

Your sex life doesn’t have to be boring or average. It can be invigorating and something that you look forward to because you never know when, or where the feeling will strike.

Outdoor sex is an experience that many people only dream of because they’re afraid of the unknown, getting caught, or hearing, “No.”

Don’t deny yourself the pleasure of fulfilling such a satisfying and invigorating moment.

If at first you don’t succeed, try again. This is for those of you that “almost” hit the ball out of the park. Perhaps your first location wasn’t the best idea but don’t let that prevent you from trying other locations, now or later on.

Try some of the places in this article, keep it fun and light, play up the danger, take charge, and you and your girl will be having amazing outdoor sex in no time. 😉

Mark Meyers

Mark is founder and sexcoach at Sexual Improvements. "Anyone can have an awesome sexlife with the right information!"

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